I feel there is an increasing problem in our modern world when it comes to giving our children choices of fun activities. First, we take away the fields (like those many of us played in when we were young) and put up buildings, then we take away backyards and make apartment complexs, then we complain that all the kids do is hang out on the streets and get in trouble. So, we buy an X-Box or a Wii to babysit, but get upset when our children show poor social skills.
I'm not trying to vilify our civilization, but I do think there is a problem.
I've read varous posts regarding the building of a skate park, bike trails, and other things that would benefit the youth of Corbin (adults too). What are some other ideas anyone has?
One way to help this situation is back the Tri County Sports Authority and their work. This group did an awesome job in Football last year, and they are doing equally as well in the Basketball program. TCSA is a determined group of individuals working to provide our kids a better way of life. Volunteers are always going to be needed, and of course financial contributions.
The TSCA is an excellent organization, but I feel there is more we can do other than ball sports.
The skate park is excellent, and the bike trail issue is a great possibility as well.
I think one thing that truly needs looking into is a new public library, one that will serve the needs of all, young and old alike. I previously lived in North Carolina and the library there offered youth and adult theatre groups, computer classes (this was several years ago) for learning computer use and the internet, several book clubs, a chess and checkers club (you'd be surprised at how many young people want to learn and how many participate in chess and checkers) and even cooking classes. They even had some local carpenters and landscape architects come in around spring time and gave classes on their specialities.
All at the local library.
Sure, most all the young people played sports, but, they had other interest too. And adults, they flocked in for many of the classes I mentioned above. The library sponsored field trips to the surrounding areas, such as parks, historical locations, and various recreational areas.
Ball sports are great. They keep you in shape, and teach teamwork and discipline. But there is more to life than playing ball.
Of course, this requires that people get involved in not only participating in these activities, but teaching or presenting them as well.
I'm sure someone will bring up church activities as a positive influence for our youth as well. But even that doesn't fill in the gaps for many of our youth.
The TCSA is great, and keep up the good work, but we need more. I don't know the answer, but threw out some suggestions.
There is a great little pottery shop in Lexington, called the Mad Potter. It has been there for years, in the Lansdowne Shoppes on Tates Creek Road. It is a great place to take kids. You pick what pottery you want to paint, and they provide all the paints and supplies. They glaze it, fire it, and you pick up your finished product in a few days. I have no artistic abilities, but I still enjoyed it and the kids loved it. I know little shops like that have a hard time making it in Corbin, but I also know that there are tons of parents out there looking for things to do with their kids. It is packed everytime we go, with parties and just people wanting to spend a few hours with their kids doing something other than going to the movies, sports, or church. All you have to do is look at how packed the dance schools, Awana programs, sport activities in Corbin are, to know that parents are definitely looking for quality activities for their kids. I would love to see something like this pottery shop in Corbin.
The TSCA is an excellent organization, but I feel there is more we can do other than ball sports.
Thanks for your post Ward. Sounds to me like you are feeling lead to participate in the volunteer network, and help bring more ideas to the table, and be a warm body in implementing those ideas. Its time we stop being monday morning quarterbacks, and get in the game. Looking forward to your help and leadership.
There is more to activities for kids than ball. Many kids don't have the ability to play that kind of sport. For those, we need other types of things, such as mentioned above by WKU and Ward.
I used to take groups of kids to the Falls hiking, short ones and long ones. It was fun and well attended.
There is more to activities for kids than ball. Many kids don't have the ability to play that kind of sport. For those, we need other types of things, such as mentioned above by WKU and Ward.
I used to take groups of kids to the Falls hiking, short ones and long ones. It was fun and well attended.
That's just one thing, but it's different.
I agree with all of you. Sports plays a vital role in many kids lives, but it is not a "Fit All". Unfortunately, the "Fit All" has become TV, Video Games, and Computers. I have all three of these at my house, but my kids are limited to all of them. As parents, it is OUR responsiblity to instruct, discipline, and guide our children, and that includes the time spent on the above, or rather the lack of. Kids are spoiled with technology, which inturn makes them less apt to enjoy outdoor activities, and affects their health and well being. Its all about GETTING INVOLVED in your kids life, and the lives of others less fortunate. Turn off the computers, TV, and Video Games and go hiking with your child, take them out in the woods and make a leaf collection, become a volunteer and start a pottery or art class, take them to Cumberland Falls and introduce them to one of God's natural wonders, grab a couple of fishing poles and hit the banks of Laurel Lake, grab some flat rocks and see how many skips each other can do across the water, or become a volunteer in Vacation Bible School at your church. When your kids grow up, it wont be that episode of American Idol, or that high score on some video game that they will remember most, it will be the time they caught that first fish, or that time dad fell into the creek trying to catch that tadpole, or the night they caught enough lightning bugs to light up their bedroom. My kids could tell you about all of that. I'm not the perfect parent, but that does'nt keep me from trying and accepting my responsiblity.
GET INVOLVED... our childrens lives depend on it. Our community depends on it.
Good post, AJ. I agree with everything you said. You are exactly right about what our kids are going to remember. Can you imagine growing up in this generation? The memories of being outside and playing free are long gone, and it is so sad. So, if we don't plan these activities, they don't happen. A sad truth in this generation. Thanks for the post. Remember, AJ, my house is still for sale.....
You know, I do think about what it would be like growing up in this generation, and I have to feel that my years as a kid then and what they would be like now wouldnt be that much different. My parents were determined I was not going to be sitting around. I didnt have a computer or video games as a kid, but even if I did, I can guarantee my Dad wouldnt have let me stay on them long. I dont think growing up as a child is any different, I think its us as parents that is the difference. I let my girls watch some TV, and they have their video games, but they know its on a limited basis. They love to play outside, and go to the parks much more than being inside.
I am in no way being critical of anybody when I post, but rather hoping others agree and are being active in their childrens lives. If a person is not, then its my hope when they read this they are able to find insight and make changes accordingly.
I was a coach this year in the TCSA Football program, and it was undoubtedly one of the most rewarding things I have done outside of being a parent. I had 15 players, and none of them were related to me before the season, but they became part of my family. I hated to see the season end, and cant wait for July to do it again. Like I said before, Sports is not the answer for every child or every volunteer, but being a positive and interegal part of a childs memory is something they and you will never forget. It takes the sum of all parts to create the whole.
Regardless if its you being a coach, a friends dad that takes everyone camping, or a listener in an Awana program, this community and the youth that lives in it gain the benefit. To me its about positive growth and outcome, and for every action there is a definitive reaction. I cant help but believe that if more people came forward and put their ideas into action, this community would see positive growth not just in activities, but a better way of life. Leadership is not about a title, but rather about service. A leader doesnt look to others for purpose, but rather serves others to establish purpose.
One last note... if you are already volunteering your time and energy to our youth .. THANK YOU... if you are not presently involved, I urge you to step outside your comfort zone and do such. I can make this statement without reservation.... nothing will give you more satisfaction than the knowledge of knowing you have made a positive impact on the future of our community and nation.
I agree with everything you said, except for the part that growing up today is the same as in our generation and all others before us. The major difference is the day of letting your kids take off in the morning, and not see them again until after dark, are long gone. I remember, as I'm sure you do too, taking off to the woods, riding bikes across town, walking to your friends houses, and our parents knowing the general vicinity we were playing in (what side of town we were on!), but not really our exact location. No cell phones or tracking devices back then. Now, we are terrified to let our kids play unsupervised. And, unfortunately, rightly so. Now, we type in our address on the computer to find out if we have a sexual predator living close by. Scary times.
So, now it is the parents' duty and responsibility to make sure their kids get outside and play. And, for a lot of parents, unfortunately which is what you are saying, letting them play video games and watching TV, is so much easier than going out and riding a bike. I think that is the biggest part of the problem. Parents have to participate, which is where the breakdown occurs. I try very hard to keep my kids active, and have one with a disability, so it is a continual challenge to keep them active and not overscheduled. But, I'm not perfect, and I'm sure I don't do it all right. But, we keep trying.....And, I thank people like you who are committed to the kids in the area. Keep up the great work with the TCSA.
I understand your point about the changes in our society and the streets.... I guess thats why I love my farmland so much, and I guess you see why I havent made an offer on your house yet! lol
While I am a huge advocate for our sports programs (ie TCSA), other posters on here have made excellent points and I dont want anyone thinking I believe that there shouldnt be more than just sports available. I am for anything that will make a positive impact on our youth.
AJ, you should be commended for your involvement in youth activities in corbin. It's people like you that help make an impression on our youth today. I used to help coach in the little league program of the late 70's and early 80's, and I cherish those days. Now, I see the kids I used to coach, coaching their own kids, and now my grandkids.
The likes of Dave Huff, Jim Lee Crawford, Frank Clabaugh, Amos Miller, Ed White, David Hannah, Charlie Osborne, Mike Morton, Jim Brock, Jerry Bird, Mr. Kersey, and on and on as the names are endless, come to mind. We need people like those today, and you're one of them AJ.
I don't know the answer to all our questions, but, doing a little something, somehow, is better than doing nothing. I try when I have time.
Rotary Park is a good example. Remember when it was only one field, and the nibroc was held there. Telephone poles and chicken wire was about all there was. The other baseball field was part of the football field.
The Corbin Recreation Dept., previously with Amos, and now with Marlon, is a shining example of what we can do if we want to. I'd love to see a new city pool built, indoors and outdoors, so kids could use it in the winter. Then, maybe Corbin could have a swim team.
The possibilities are endless, with us as the only limitations as to what we can do.
I truly appreciate your kind words, but if it wasnt for people like Kelly Farris, Bob Oneil, Tim Barnes, Chad Estep, and so many others who stepped up and formed the TCSA, that program would never have gotten off the ground. I am a very small part of that equation, but very thankful I am. That same kind of "coming together" can happen with any activity idea. All it takes is for people to see a need and take positive action.
What an awesome town we live in, and beyond what some posters might say, there is encouragement and kinship still here. This message board is a great tool to share ideas, and discuss different issues. Not everyone will agree with everyone, but thats the awesome part of being American. We can disagree but not be disagreeable.
Thanks again for your comments, and I look forward to hearing more ideas, and as always....
Very good positive comments regarding activities for young people. When my son was in college, he used to visit me on weekends in Corbin. There was nothing for him to do. He made friends, but there still was nothing for them to do except 'just hang out!' This bothered me because I worried about the negative aspects of just hangin' out. The only place they had to go was the movies. Today, I must admit, my children have become far greater parents than I ever was. The thing I see in my children as parents is that they were involved in all of their children's school and social activities. The mothers were boosters club presidents, etc. They knew where their children were and who their friends were. My son coached little league baseball and basketball. Even though they all had 8-5 jobs, they made time for the kids. That, to me, is what really matters. Keep the kids busy with activities other than TV and becoming couch potatoes. Share their fun! Get to know their friends and their friends' parents.
There are many arts and crafts activities available outside of school. What is needed are volunteers to head these projects and get the young people interested. I know there are lots of talented parents in Corbin. Corbin has its Nibroc Festival every year, which, I consider basically entertainment, but has anyone thought about having an on-hands Arts and Crafts Festival, one that can build on its own reputation. I'm talking about a 'teaching' festival where young people, and adults, can learn creative arts and crafts; activities that ward off boredom and depression. Bring in the artisans to demonstrate, and offer classes at a minimal fee. They can also sell their work. I believe there is an artist in every person. Once the creative interest is discovered, parents will not have to wonder where the child is and what he is doing. Suggestions: Small theater group, creative writing, pottery, basket-weaving, rug-hooking, sewing/quilting/needlework, wood-carving, treenwork, mosaics, music, games, drawing, painting, horticulture, dancing, jewelry-making, sculpting, origamy, glass-blowing, and my own personal interest--genealogy, and possibly, just making something out of nothing(so, to speak)! The list is unlimited. I have a friend who travels from CA to Cherokee, NC, every year to teach gourd art. Her work is fantastic. I never even thought about working with gourds until I saw her artwork. She has a website featuring her work. There is nothing more exciting to me than watching the creative hand of an artist or craftsperson. There is personal satisfaction in seeing a young person using his mind and skills to create a work of art. It is up to the adults to create a healthy and fun-loving environment for the growth of our children. One person can acquire the interest of another, and get the ball rolling!! (Sorry! I am a bit long-winded.)
Waste Management, that is a great idea. Ward is a person of knowledge and appreciates the good values. We need to start a movement to get him as our next City Manager. Ward knows best!
Wonderful ideas from everyone. Too many people talk about there being nothing to do in Corbin, and much of these activities do or have at one time existed in Corbin over the years from what I have been told or personally remember. So, there's no reason they shouldn't exist again. And, the great thing is many of these things are enjoyable to adults too. So, we can get off our sorry fat repositories and have a little fun in the process.
Kids remember great hikes, cool camping trips, making a craft and giving it to Grandma, catching a fish, grilling out, hitting a home run. Of course, not every ball player can crochet and not every chef likes to hike. But when there are choices...there is something everyone can do.
Now, our task should be to go out and get the proverbial ball rolling. Kudos go to several out there who are already volunteering with many of these activities! It feels very rewarding, doesn't it!! Yet, there is more that we can do. When you decide to go on a nature walk, ask the neighborhood kids if they want to go Bring a few parents along. Point out nature and they'll learn to respect it (something sadly missing from an enormous amount of our youth today). Start a children's theatre program at church or through a club. Get all the kids on your block together for an evening where they cook the meals and the adults get to sit around and relax for a change (they'll remember that for the rest of their lives). Afterward, organize some games. If enough subdivisions or blocks do this type of thing, it's a start.
I wonder how realistic it is to hope we could get a building or at least a significant portion of an existing one where regular activities could occur? Games, classes, even a base from which to go on hikes or store/loan some sports equipment (keeping proper tabs, of course). Wouldn't it be great if you were a kid and could go over on any given evening and find friends to hang out with, learn something, hang out with responsible and fun adults, and meet new people? Church is great for much of this, but it does limit youth to only kids in that particular church and a couple guests here and there. It would be great if we had something dedicated to our area youth and regular people and volunteers to run it. A very small staff could take care if the logistics. Could some of the cost be offset by grants? Leasing out space occasionally? Donations? If parents knew it was a worthwhile project, would they be eager to volunteer, or would they hope others would babysit their kids instead?
I'm throwing out ideas and trying to think of the positives and negatives. We are, after all, human.